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Judith Gotwald

Valuing the Small Church for What It Is

Small churches are the Church’s secret weapon.
They just don’t know it!

Here’s the paradox of church work.

The mission is to reach all the world, right?

Only a small percentage of the world can afford to support “church” the way it is understood in the West. Even we in the West are having a tough time of it! Do we really welcome the ill and indigent to be part of the economic burden of Church?

The Church has set itself up for perpetual failure. It blames the few people who are supporting it for that failure. Result: morale is in the pits. Visitors sense gloom!

The people who still support neighborhood congregations are very good people. Passionate. Self-sacrificing. Dedicated beyond measure!

The Church, blinded by economics, saps as much from them as possible before exercising hierarchical powers — constitutional or not — throwing its strongest supporters to the curb (literally in Redeemer’s case!).

Forced church closings, where hierarchy self-righteously grabs assets is bad enough. When this is done by design it is downright sinful.

Church regional bodies have been taught to ignore struggling churches and wait them out. It’s right in the book used to train regional managers of various denominations (co-authored by SEPA’s own Bishop Claire Burkat).

“You do not have the luxury of giving everyone who asks for help whatever time you have available. Some tough decisions need to be made as to where your Regional Body is going to invest time, energy, and resources. Thinking in terms of TRIAGE is a most responsible thing to do at the present time. Congregations that will die within the next ten years should receive the least amount of time and attention. They should receive time that assists them to die with celebration and dignity. Offer these congregations a ‘caretaker’ pastor who would give them quality palliative care until they decide to close their doors.  It is the kind of tough-minded leadership that will be needed at the helm if your organization is to become a Transformational Regional Body.”

There it is in black and white. Don’t waste time and resources on congregations that will close in ten years (if you do nothing).

A decade is long enough to fight two world wars!

And so the premise for mission changes. This part is not written down in congregational mission statements.

Churches want people who can support the way things are. Even better if they could support the way things were. Property and the staff come first. Programming and mission a distant last.

What would happen if the Church concentrated — really concentrated — on small church ministry? What if they found a way to help congregations be small, proud and strong — as opposed to dictating ministry solutions that work only in larger settings.

Small churches still have one big thing going for them. People still tend to prefer smaller churches!

It’s up to the smaller churches to insist on a change in attitude. This may not be as hard as it seems. Together, small churches outnumber large churches.

Find your voice! While you still have one!

What’s Missing from the Church? Emotion

“We are not thinking machines that feel;
rather, we are feeling machines that think.”

—Antonio Damasio

What does it take to mobilize a congregation?

The answer to this question is elusive. It is usually answered with formulaic responses presented by distant church leaders, many of whom have limited hands-on pastoral experience.

  • Get a good pastor. (Definition of this is never clear).
  • Write a mission statement. (The push to have mission statement is now a decade or more old. Has it made a difference?)
  • Target certain demographics. (Rather exclusive!)

Sometimes these approaches work. Not usually.

A congregation will not be mobilized until it feels. Emotion is fuel for action.

People don’t act based on the analytical part of their brains. They act based upon the emotional parts of their brains. In head vs heart, heart wins.

Churches are not good at handling emotion. Emotions can be so messy!

The cerebral approach permeates church life. We tend to turn up our noses at more demonstrative styles of worship. Soon, even hymns of joy are sung cerebrally, with every nose in the congregation buried in the hymnal!

Pastors are often cerebral in their approach to ministry. They are trained to read and analyze scripture. Applying that training to action is s rarer skill.

To appeal to the emotional is daring and dangerous, but it is the only way to get a congregation moving.

Congregational leaders must find ways to help worshipers feel again.

Too often in its history, the Church has relied on two emotions: FEAR and GUILT.

And we wonder why people stay away!

Here are some emotions that could change your congregational life for the better.

LOVE is powerful. Love is a verb. It is easy to talk about love and do nothing.

ANGER is a powerful emotion. Make sure anger is directed in unselfish ways, but don’t be afraid to encourage appropriate anger.

HOPE is an emotion. Hope is lost if people come to church week after week and nothing happens.

JOY is a powerful emotion. It demands expression. Foster joy. People are eager to come together when they can expect true joy. (View the boychoir video in the last post. Those boys come faithfully to rehearsals because they are encouraged to express joy. Compare the faces of the boy singers to the faces of the typical church choir!)

Warning! A church that takes an emotional approach to mission will experience conflict. It goes with the territory. Conflict, well-managed, can be a good thing. Both the Old and New Testaments are infused with conflict. If transformation is to be more than a buzzword, it must be expected, respected and embraced.

Learn to foster emotions—and the conflicts that go with them. Be prepared to use the dynamics of emotion to teach, motivate and change lives — including your congregation’s life!

An Inspiring Video Proving Boys Love to Sing

Here is an uplifting video which reminded us of Redeemer’s experience.

Redeemer hosted the East Falls Children’s Choir and held a music camp every summer. About 11 years ago, a new choir formed, meeting in East Falls. We fed the boys that attended the choir and our camp into the Keystone State Boychoir. (A girl choir formed a few years later.)

The choir gave the boys confidence, discipline and a passion for music. In the choir’s first ten years the boys that stuck with it sang on every continent. Yes, every continent.

The directors’ philosophy—allow self-conscious boys to sing with boys and they will grow to love singing in general.

Most churches have a rough time convincing their boys to sing. Typical mixed choruses in any youthful venue are 90% female. But boys do like to sing.

The link below will take you to YouTube. Come back for the translation to the hymn (below).

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Translation:

I would not ask a life that’s easy

gold and pearls so little mean

rather seek a heart that’s joyful

heart that’s honest, heart that’s clean.

 

Heart that’s clean and filled with virtue.

fairer far than lilies white

only pure hearts praise God truly

Praise him all the day and night.

 

Dawn and sunset still I’m searching

rising on a wing of song

Give me Lord, through Christ my Savior

that clean heart for which I long.

Adult Object Lesson: John 6

Solving the Puzzle

Today’s object lesson is a puzzle. Print the empty grid in the bulletin with the following list of Words.

  • TWO
  • FISHES
  • FIVE
  • LOAVES
  • FATHER
  • BREAD
  • OF
  • LIFE
  • ETERNAL
  • SPIRIT
  • BLOOD
  • FLESH
  • SON OF MAN
  • SPIRIT

Say something along these lines.

In your bulletin is a list of words. They are all part of the story we’ve been reading from Chapter 6 of the Book of John for the last few weeks. There is a crossword grid printed in the bulletin. While I talk to you this morning, I invite you to fit the words into the grid.

It’s a puzzle—a game.

And that’s what has been happening in our Gospel lesson for the last few weeks.

Jesus has been playing a sort of game with his disciples—a teaching game—trying to get his disciples and other followers thinking. He knows what he is up to. The scripture notes this from the start when Philip first posed the immediate problem facing them—feeding five thousand hungry people with five small loaves of bread and five fishes.

Oh, the people are hungry, are they? Well, where do you suggest we buy them food?

From that point on the whole chapter is a puzzle with lots of pieces to put together. Jesus knows the answers and he knows that the disciples aren’t yet on the same page with Him. He throws them clues left and right, accented with a touch of the supernatural here and there.

He performs the miraculous feeding. This becomes the metaphor for His object lesson. But that’s just the beginning. Strange happenings abound.

He tries to get away. The disciples leave Him behind. He appears on the water. The boat reaches its destination the minute He climbs on board. Crowds keep searching for Him. When they find Him, He keeps going back to the food metaphor.

I am the Bread of Life.

Then He starts talking about being the Son of Man and then about the Father who sent Him. Talk of the Bread of Life turns to talk of flesh and blood. A true puzzle.

During the long story, the action moves from the hillside to the desert to the sea and the opposite shore and ends with Jesus continuing the story from the temple in Capernaum.

Point out that we read this story today with the benefit of knowing what is about to happen—the Last Supper, the Betrayal, the Crucifixion and the Resurrection. The puzzle solvers of Galilee were truly perplexed. A good number threw up their hands and walked away.

The chapter ends with Peter’s answer to the puzzle. As some of Jesus’ followers are fleeing, he states a simple creed. We repeat this regularly in our worship services

“Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. We have come to believe and to know that you are the Holy One of God.”

That was Peter’s answer to the puzzle. You might have the congregation repeat these words.

Here is the answer to today’s puzzle.

The London Olympics Cauldron: Beautiful

The cauldron of the London Olympic games was beautiful—a pleasure to view even far away on television. It outshone the Olympics itself!

It was comprised of copper petals, carried into the stadium by children of the world and assembled to be lit not by one famous athlete but by seven child athletes whose names will be remembered—at least for the time being—by only their families and friends. The children are left to dream of the day when they might compete and their story might be recalled. “She was one of the seven children to light the cauldron in 2012.” Such is the thing of dreams.

For all its beauty, the cauldron debuted to criticism. It wasn’t what people expected. It wasn’t big enough. It didn’t tower over the games. Where was the power? Where was the big statement?

Criticism waned as the games were played. It’s beauty overpowered the nitpicking. The petals grew on us!

The cauldron story usually ends when it is extinguished. But this Olympic Cauldron will live on all over the world as the petals are disassembled and sent home to each participating country.

It was never one big urn of fire—the same but a little bigger than the games of previous years. It was the assembly of individual flames that gave it power and beauty. It was powerful because it was  thought through beyond the power of big. It will live in memory far longer than the cauldrons that were attempts at the colossal.

Well done, London.

The Church: Can It Make A Difference?

You do not become a “dissident” just because you decide one day to take up this most unusual career. You are thrown into it by your personal sense of responsibility, combined with a complex set of external circumstances. You are cast out of the existing structures and placed in a position of conflict with them. It begins as an attempt to do your work well, and ends with being branded an enemy of society. —Václav Havel—Living in Truth, 1986

The members of Redeemer have been living the unhappy lives of “dissidents” for the last five years. Redeemer members were forging a new ministry, doing what we thought was right (as the most recent judge pointed out to Synod). We were cast out and attacked by the Church to which we were and remain faithful.

The ELCA has created its own little world complete with its own rules—made, revised, and broken with regular and accepted ease. It has claimed immunity from the law, which might force it to follow its own rules. Meanwhile, it uses the law against its members.

It has become a lethargic source of benevolence, existing primarily to support itself, coat-tailing the efforts of secular organizations, with diminished vision and no sense that it actually can be a force for good—if it dares.

ELCA Congregations and their regional bodies are constitutionally interdependent. Consequently, each congregation has its own little culture — which one might think leads to diversity. It doesn’t.

Congregations are in many ways clones of one another. They hold worship services which are similar, become involved in similar causes in the community, acquire professional leadership with the same training. Some are larger than others. Some are more effective than others. Size has little to do with effectiveness.

In the world of the ELCA all is happy — the better to attract new members and create economic stability to attract people to professional service. The relationship between congregations and regional bodies is often little more than employer/employment agency.

When things go wrong, the true character of the Church becomes evident.

The ship of the ELCA has no keel. When rough waters threaten there is no leadership to steady it. Taking a stand might be politically dangerous, threatening a leader’s value to the employment agency.

In recent years, the domination lost 10% of its congregations in a doctrinal dispute. Church leaders remained relatively silent. The response: revise the rules to make it harder for congregations to leave.

Tough economic times have brought out the worst in Church leadership.

In the Southeastern Pennsylvania Synod (SEPA) and several others, church leaders have been running roughshod over member churches to acquire property and wealth. Similar stories emerge from several synods.

Congregations have, for the most part, remained silent as their regional bodies attack sister congregations. This may seem like the safe route, but it leaves all church members vulnerable. All the resources of 150 or more congregations are available to attack an individual congregation. The attackers control the forums for appeal making the efforts at democratic involvement ludicrous.

Those who challenge are labeled and attacked personally to discourage others from taking a stand. The attacks continue long after there is any hope of further monetary gain. Hatefulness defies reason.

Havel wrote about this too.

Some people have the souls of collaborators and others the souls of resisters. Collaborators aren’t simply the active supporters of a system’s oppressions. They are everyone who tacitly accepts injustice without a murmur. They confirm the system, fulfill the system, and validate the system; they are the system.

We, the unintentional dissidents of SEPA Synod, visit church after church that voted against their own governing documents to take our property by force. From pulpit after pulpit, we hear Scripture that teaches that treating one another so hatefully is wrong. We listen to sermon after sermon, explaining the scriptures correctly. Failure to seek peace, reconcile and forgive is wrong.

We see no one able to act.

Congregations with NO Web Presence Are Waiting to Fail

The Evangelical Lutheran Church in America gathers statistics from congregations and publishes a searchable database on the internet. It is called the ELCA Trend report. If you a looking for a church within a certain radius, all you must do is plug in your zip code and the distance you are willing to travel. A list will pop up.

The list contains the name of the congregation, its address, phone number and web address if available.

We plugged 25 miles into the radius and a long list of congregations came up, stretching into New Jersey. We are quite familiar with the list. We’ve visited nearly 50 of the congregations.

The first thing we like to do when visiting is review the congregation’s web site to find the time of services and learn about their ministry in advance of our visit.

Here is an amazing fact. Thirty of the congregations within 25 miles of our area (excluding NJ) have NO WEB SITE. Many of them are congregations with mission status which means the synod has some oversight of their ministry. (Redeemer, the church SEPA claims is too small to minister, has two web sites! This is one. redeemereastfalls.com is the other)

Where do people go today when they are looking for a restaurant, doctor, school, specialty store . . . church? To the internet.

There is no excuse for any church to ignore the potential of the web, even if it is simply to publish their address and worship times. A simple site can be set up for $25 a year and would take just 15 minutes to publish. With templates readily available, the most basic effort can look professional.

Congregations without web sites are advertising their inability to evangelize in today’s world.

Why would congregations not take advantage of the web?

  • Lack of knowledge. It’s a lot easier than it used to be.
  • The thinking that the web site is for current members and current members aren’t interested. Web sites are more for potential members than members.
  • Expense. They think it will cost hundreds or thousands of dollars. It used to! But not anymore. You can have a web site for $25 a year.

If you need help, call or write 2×2.

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No excuses. Get on the web!

Restoring Trust in the Church (for the first time in a long time)

Building on a post by Lou Hoffman in “grow”—which builds on the thinking of Mark Schaefer.

The headline grabbed the attention of this Yankee.

Adopting the Piggly Wiggly View of Social Media

Piggly Wiggly? Isn’t that the grocery store in the movie, Driving Miss Daisy?

Piggly Wiggly, as a little research reveals, was the first self-service grocery store. Very few people are alive today that remember any other kind!

Back in 1917, an entrepreneur set out to change things. In those days, if you wanted a bag of flour, you walked into the local grocery with your own wicker basket and stepped up to a counter. The clerk fetched a bag of flour from behind the counter. You went down your list with the clerk turning to collect your desired items from the shelf and assembling your order on the counter before filling your basket and accepting your coin.

Clarence Saunders got rid of the counter. He stacked shelves with food and allowed customers to roam around and choose groceries themselves. He put prices on each item and provided a cart with wheels so you could buy more items, more easily. Revolutionary!

He met with resistance. All innovators do!

Stockholders feared customers would rob them blind. Sure, there are shoplifters, but for the most part, we all go to the grocery store today and select our own food.

Learn from this, Church. Get over your fear; trust the people.

Trust is not really very common n the Church. Much of Church tradition grew from distrust.

This is regularly displayed in the presentation of the Eucharist. One common method requires clergy to be the only hand to touch the host, placing the bread in the mouths of parishioners like a parent bird. The custom grew from the Church’s lack of trust in her people. If you allow peasants to touch the host they might not eat it like they are supposed to.

When trust is absent, control steps in. With control comes power. Power is a hungry beast that needs regular attention. Eventually, controls become so harsh that people no longer trust church leaders.  Reversing established controls is difficult. Result: no one trusts anyone. Some church!

Social Media relies on trust. The Church has been very slow to embrace Social Media. No surprise! Social Media cannot be controlled top-down and that’s all the Church knows.

Social Media has arrived just in time. People’s trust in Church leaders has been shattered by scandal. The actions of a few can bring the downfall of many.

Religious groups must recognize that faith and involvement in Church is optional.

By the way, the modern grocery story opened many doors. Sellers of products could now get the attention of the consumers without relying on the grocer. Consumers, by roaming around a well-stocked store, became familiar with cooking and cuisine from all over the world.

Think what opening the windows and doors with Social Tools of the Church might do!

Trust is a responsibility. There was a time when dialog in the Church was one way. This was back in the day when authorities made the rules, published the books and held the key to the treasury which was kept full by exerting power.

Today, it is two-way. It is likely that a lot of dialog will happen before the Church actually starts to listen. But people do have a voice and will learn to use it.

If this is not recognized, the leaders in the church will become reactionary, doing whatever they can to hang on to old-fashioned power structure even as the congregations they serve fail.

This is no way to run a Church.

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When the Church Ignores the Obvious

Another Chapter in a Tale of Two Churches

In 1979, Alfred Krass, A United Christian Church pastor from nearby Levittown, Pa., wrote a “white paper” on Evangelism in Mainline Denominations, published in Christian Century magazine.

Reading this study 33 years later reveals that many of the issues raised remain serious issues in mainline denominations. As is often the case in the Church, issues raised that are not on the popular agenda are often ignored.

Rev. Krass’s paper ends by identifying two questions for which he saw no denominations taking any steps to address. One involved the methods of communication used by the Church. The article did not foresee the internet and its tremendous potential for change (largely ignored by the Church).

The other problem he identified 33 years ago was the absence of families in Church and the ineffectiveness of motivating families as evangelists.

Redeemer’s Ambassador visits reveal that this is still a crying need in the Church. Rev. Krass identified the absence of 15- to 45-year-olds. Redeemer’s Ambassador visits reveal that the spread is now even broader. With very few exceptions, among the nearly 50 churches we have visited, children and youth are absent. When present, they can be counted on the fingers of one hand. Furthermore, the missing age group in church today is more realistically 1-50.

This was not true of Redeemer. Our age spectrum was fairly broad with no one age group dominating.

This problem unaddressed for the last three decades remains a problem. What are we doing about it?

The missing age group is the demographic where multiple generations actually live together under one roof — or in today’s world — under two roofs. The prevalence of the divided family is probably a big part of the problem. Religion can be an additional divisive agent.

How do we shape our message so that it reaches this majority population?

He closes with a point that church camps are ideally situated to minister to families. Interesting! Redeemer was a big supporter of church camping, making sure that as many members as possible were able to attend family camp and other church camping programs. Perhaps Rev. Krass’s ideas were working for us!

East Falls is an interesting place to study this question. This traditionally working class neighborhood happens to be blessed. It is a nice place to live and raise families and many generations stayed in East Falls through the years of “white flight.” Property values are strong despite the average family income. Families that raised six kids in their millworkers’ rowhouses and hung onto their property are now property rich. The vultures are all too willing to swoop in.

The conditions in East Falls and the actions of leaders of its faith communities reveal the priorities of hierarchies.

East Falls has Redeemer, where SEPA Synod has evicted the families and locked the doors, claiming the property the congregation had owned and the building they had built on working class salaries. More recently, St. Bridget’s Roman Catholic Church, was forced by its hierarchy to close its school. Redeemer had a strong family ministry. St. Bridget’s School was the hub of parish activity.

In sharing their experiences, both congregations noted the same thing. The “hierarchy” wasn’t listening. (Note: Lutherans aren’t really hierarchical. Their leaders just act that way.)

Another thing the two congregations have in common: Their hierarchies see church property as of more value to them when they are occupied by people who can pay more to use them than church members who live in the neighborhood.

Interesting, indeed!

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The Path to Church Growth: Empower the Laity

For centuries the Church has allowed the clergy to direct mission. It worked for a while, especially when church professionals were willing to labor in the field for little compensation and the people they served were uneducated. The rewards in those days were in the commitment to the Lord and His service. Tax law even recognized the sacrifices of clergy and created special rules to lessen their tax burden.

That level of commitment is rare today. Church professionals have negotiated salaries that might still be low compared to the corporate world but which are far better. They still have tax advantages.

The current state of decline in the Church has been influenced by this shift. Congregations must work harder and members must sacrifice more for less leadership. The laity have become valued for what they can contribute.

There are solutions but they require de-emphasizing the reliance on professional leadership. Empower the laity. They, for the most part, are still willing to labor without monetary rewards. They may even be eager to make a difference. In this day and age, they are educated and have leadership skills which they use in the secular world.

There is one hitch that will keep this from happening. Empowering the laity means less power for clergy.

Ministry was never supposed to be about power. It was supposed to be about service.

The biggest advantage to empowering the laity may force a return to that thinking.